"When I didn't win the lottery, I thought about spending the rest of my life with him, but when I got money, he immediately betrayed me." Ms. Yuan from Dezhou, Shandong Province probably never thought that once her husband's lottery dream came true, it would be the beginning of the breakdown of their marriage. On December 17 last year, her husband won a 10.17 million grand prize, 8.14 million after tax. This was supposed to be a turning point in family happiness, but it became a touchstone of human nature.
When Ms. Yuan asked @小丽 for help, she was helpless and aggrieved. She introduced that she and her husband met in 2015 and got married in 2016. They have been together for nearly 10 years now. She is divorced and has a child. After marrying her husband, although she is not rich, she is ordinary and happy.
Before getting married, my husband was an old lottery fan. After getting married, he often used his living expenses and overdraft money to buy. On December 17 last year, he spent 42 yuan and won 10.17 million, 8.14 million after tax. At that time, the husband immediately told him that the two of them were going on a trip. After returning, he gave Zhang himself 3 million cards, saying they would be used for their future retirement. "I didn't even look at it, I just put it in the drawer."
Unexpectedly, her husband changed completely after that – he went out to play mahjong and squandered money, watched live broadcasts all night, rewarded female anchors with huge sums of money, and even went in and out with a female anchor.
In July this year, Ms. Yuan said that her husband said he was going out to buy tea, but he disappeared for four days. Later, she learned that her husband would be back on the 27th, so she went to the station to pick him up. Unexpectedly, there was a female anchor who also left the station with him. "I went to buy chrysanthemum tea for me, and they were together, loving like a young couple. That girl is one of the anchors he often tips, and she is also from our local area."
"We don't have children of our own. He once said that he would find an anchor to give him a child." Ms. Yuan's words revealed the complete collapse of this marriage. The couple who once loved each other found their relationship vulnerable in the face of huge wealth. As her husband became impatient, unwilling to explain, and started to make trouble, Ms. Yuan said that she decided to divorce. But when she took out the original 3 million card, she found that it was empty. Even on the third day after winning the lottery, her husband withdrew 7.1 million.
"I trust him so much, but he deceives me and betrays me like this! Before I won the lottery, I was prepared to spend the rest of my life with him. Now that I have money, he is gone."
To find out whether what Ms. Yuan said was true, Xiaoli met her husband and he responded: He has already sued me, what else can I say? I spent the money, and I still gambled! Let’s wait until the court is in session~
(Ms. Yuan provided chat records between her husband and other people)
According to the lawyer, according to Article 1062 of the Civil Code, lottery winnings during marriage are joint property of the husband and wife. The husband's private transfer of 7.1 million yuan constituted the concealment and transfer of joint property, and Ms. Yuan could claim multiple shares of the property in the divorce proceedings.
The lawyer also said that if the 1.2 million yuan reward is proven to be based on improper relationship between a man and a woman, or seriously damages the joint property interests of the couple (far beyond the scope of reasonable consumption), Ms. Yuan can claim for a partial return.
Later, Xiaoli and Ms. Yuan found one of the female anchors, and the anchor responded: I am not the only one who rewards, we are both online. I am divorced and single. We have known each other a long time ago. How old is he and how old am I? Even if I were to find a boyfriend again, I would not look for him. I am a female anchor and I rely on my eldest brother for rewards. However, my eldest brother and I do not do anything excessive in private, and we do not make money from love tickets. As for the rewards, I have not calculated how much the rewards are. If you want to refund the money, you can find the platform and I am willing to cooperate.
Xiaoli wants to say that in the face of temptation, character is far more important than wealth. The essence of marriage is mutual companionship, not the wealth of being a bird in the same forest.
Perhaps, in addition to lottery dreams, we should cherish the true colors of trust, loyalty and love that have nothing to do with money and are the most precious things in life.
