The 86-year-old Granny Lin lost the ability to take care of herself after the surgery, but her second daughter was left to take care of her alone. The eldest son who lives next door not only stopped visiting her, but also blocked the doors and windows of her house and cut off the water and electricity. The younger biological son even blocked relatives and avoided seeing her. What kind of entanglement is hidden behind this mother-son rebellion?
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Grandma Lin became disabled after surgery in her eighties, and her second daughter took care of her alone.
Grandma Lin is 86 years old this year. Her husband died early and she has four sons and two daughters. Now she only has her second daughter, Ating, by her side. After an operation, Grandma Lin was completely unable to take care of herself and relied on Ating to take care of her daily life.
Grandma Lin's eldest son A Ming lives next door to his mother. Not only did he not participate in the support, he cut off her mother's water and electricity and blocked the door.
The eldest son also cut off the mother's water and electricity and blocked the door.
Grandma Lin's brother tried to mediate and asked her two sons to pay 2,000 yuan a year in alimony, but was not only rejected, but was also insulted by the younger son's wife.
home environment
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Adopted son reveals his grievances
The mediation team found the eldest son A Ming, who lived next door, and found out why he had cut off the water supply and blocked the door. It turns out that A Ming is not Granny Lin’s biological child, but an adopted child. What’s even more special is that he was once married to Granny Lin’s second daughter, Ating. This failed marriage became the trigger of the conflict between mother and son.
A-Ting admitted that A-Ming often drank and played cards and stayed out late at night, so he would attack her after some persuasion. However, A-Ming argued that the reason for the attack was because he suspected that A-Ting was having an affair.
mediator interviewed
It has long been difficult to verify the right and wrong of the marriage back then, but the years of accusations and slander made A Ming feel full of grievances.
A Ming said that over the years, Granny Lin has always stood by her daughter and constantly abused A Ming and his current wife in the village, causing him to lose face and build up grudges.
The house involved
A Ming said frankly that he did not really want to abandon her, and he just wanted to live apart from Granny Lin by cutting off the water and blocking the door. He believed that what he had done for Granny Lin was only met with unwarranted abuse, which he could not let go of.
He also said that a few years ago, he asked his cousin to hand over 2,000 yuan in alimony, but Grandma Lin claimed that he had never fulfilled his filial piety, and his biological youngest son also did not take care of his mother, which completely chilled him.
old man being interviewed
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Younger son: Says his mother failed to fulfill her responsibilities in raising children
The eldest son's attitude gradually softened, but the behavior of the younger biological son A Jian was even more chilling. Grandma Lin’s brother said that after Grandma Lin was discharged from the hospital after surgery, Ajian did not show up to visit her for several months and even blocked her relatives’ contact information.
Granny Lin’s brother was interviewed
After the reporter contacted Ajian by phone, his words were full of contradictions: "My father died when I was a child. She went out to work for decades, and all the money she earned was subsidized to her daughter and her parents' family. I relied on myself to start a family and start a career. She has not fulfilled her responsibilities in raising children, so why should she let me support her?"
In his opinion, only a loving mother can lead to a filial son. His mother's absence at that time made him unwilling to fulfill his support obligations.
Mediation scene
The adopted son cashed the alimony on the spot
On the one hand, the grievances of the children for many years were on the one hand, and on the other hand, the 80-year-old man's urgent needs for survival, the mediation reached a deadlock for a time. The mediator patiently persuaded Amin and told Amin that whether biological or adopted, it is a legal obligation to support the elderly. No matter how much grievances there are, one cannot treat his elderly mother in an extreme way such as cutting off water and electricity.
Both parties reached an agreement
With the persuasion of the mediator, the constraints of the law, and the support of A Ming's current wife, A Ming finally put aside his grievances and handed over 2,000 yuan in alimony to Granny Lin on the spot. He also promised to remove the blocked doors and windows as soon as possible and visit his mother more often.
Under the mediator's persuasion, Granny Lin agreed not to accuse A Ming externally and to put aside her past grudges. This family conflict that has been entangled for many years has finally come to an end.
Family conflicts finally come to an end
As for the younger son, Granny Lin’s brother said that he would pursue his support obligations through legal proceedings.
In fact, home is never a place that is only about reason, but also about love and consideration. Children remember their parents’ nurturing grace, and parents tolerate their children’s imperfections. Only by caring less and being more tolerant can they add warmth to their later years and add a ray of sunshine to their families.
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